The Co-Inspired Life: “Reverse Gratitude”

I had a very high vibration experience, with what I now choose to call “Reverse Gratitude” on three different occasions in the last couple of weeks. The sense of balancing life’s events that once were painful memories… that I have decided that I can now share it with YOU.

How, every incident/Occurrence in our lives is meant for a purpose, to teach us something. More often than not… if we haven’t reached the lesson, acknowledged and accepted the purpose the incident was meant to serve… we continue hurting. And we all don’t really want to hurt.. now… or in the future!! Do we?

Then again, to be able to acknowledge it, we must bring to our awareness the truth of the WHY of the event. The truth, can only be revealed when we accept it as an event in which we can find a reason to be grateful for the occurrence. Some memories, have multiple WHY’s… each WHY a lesson!! So, while I prepare a whole technique, which you will be able to read in “The Co-Inspired Life”, my second book!! Here’s a pilot… to help you help me by Co-Inspiring the COMPLETE “Reverse Gratitude” module!!

Here’s how to begin the process

1) Do this when you have 21 minutes of YOU time OR you have a partner you can do this with, sharing with someone, can bring up even more powerful memories of Gratitude!

2) Think about a which area of your life you would like to heal the past  of to create a brand new experience NOW:

a) Relationships b) Profession c) Social d) Family e) Finances f) Personal etc..

3) Now find one THOUGHT that makes you feel a sense of gratitude. Let’s take RELATIONSHIPS… You could choose one particular relationship… or a community relationship. Even if the memories hurt… and they will… find ONE MEMORY from all of them that does make you smile. Just ONE

RIGHT NOW I AM MOST GRATEFUL FOR________

4) Now begin to trace backwards… all the events that led to this MOMENT of Gratitude!!

a) who introduced you… there maybe multiple sources… through whom you met!! Express your Gratitude to those people… events… memories.

5) How did you meet those people… who introduced you?? go back… to that moment… you’ll find it amusing that your memories… will take you places People, events, moments…  that will make you smile.

6) As you continue to “thank in reverse order” you will realise, that some of the events you ONCE found painful to remember… are really the KEY events that you did not connect with as part of your gratitude.

7) Keep asking yourself questions as you float backwards with Gratitude. Here are some that can help you dig deeper :

a) What was happening in that memory? and thank for it.

b) Who was in this memory with me? and be grateful for them.

c) How did I get to this particular memory? what happened that led to this particular event? and be grateful for the trigger!!! 

To cut the story short… so that you can begin your own “REVERSE GRATITUDE” …. here’s what I am most Grateful for RIGHT NOW in my life….

If my parents hadn’t SEPARATED when I was 5… I wouldn’t have been here… sharing this phenomenal technique with you  

Here’s wishing you HEALING and LOVE… think and thank… the past has a purpose… and your NOW is WITNESS of it!!

Relationships: There’s more to it than meets the SIGH!!

We, are all drawn to each other by the LAW OF VIBRATIONAL EXPANSION… L.O.V.E!!! Each Vibrational meeting develops over mutual exchange of energies and develops further into what we call RELATIONSHIPS!

Therefore, before you begin, you must understand, that you MUST ALLOW yourself to ACCEPT the PANORAMIC expression of a relationship.

A relationship, begins with the exchange of VIBRATIONS for e.g. when we as much as brush past each other, your VIBRATION meets mine, we’ve ALREADY begun, a relationship. Where it goes from that first vibrational exchange, is what we call, DESTINY!!

A relationship, much like everything in our lives is drawn by desire to experience a new feeling. This could be with a person or thing!! Our relationship begins with DESIRE and continues to grow, even beyond our times together!! A relationship impacts your being and these points of IMPACT are most often called MEMORIES!!

At a subconscious level we invite relationships into our life to draw us to a deeper understanding of our own evolution from the “I” to “We”. Most often, we’re circumstantially drawn to that WHICH we EXPECT from a relationship, that is the first step really!! WE BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND WHAT WE WANT!!!

So, what I am getting to really, is that all are RELATIONSHIPS are in our experience by our invitation, for us to discover ourselves through it. In every relationship we will find a piece of WHO WE REALLY ARE!!

If we were to move our attention from our expectations in a relationship from the other person, to our REALISATION of our own growth, because of the relationship, we will continue to draw WOW experiences!

It’s a fascinating experience to even begin to touch upon the larger perspective of relationships. Where we move from what the relationship is from the perspective of our EXTERNAL UNDERSTANDING, to a deeper more meaningful INTERNAL UNDERSTANDING of the beauty of each relationship in our personal evolution.

I have but just touched upon a PERSPECTIVE so large, that it would be wiser to let you draw your own relationship canvas before, we can begin to share a completely new PERSPECTIVE from which to live each relationship!

Remember to ReMEMBER, what you’ve understood or been made to understand by your different relationships. ALLOW your thoughts to take you through your own experiences. Don’t judge the thoughts, ACCEPT them, let L.O.V.E expand your PERSPECTIVE.

For from the many PERSPECTIVES of a relationship are born our experiences. Our Experiences, create our DESIRES and our DESIRES are the THOUGHTS we manifest!!!

So, I’ll sign off… leaving you to broaden your view, to discover that with this new perspective, there’s more to RELATIONSHIPS than meet the SIGH!!!

 

An Invitation to a deeper relationship!!

Gospel of Mark 4:21-25

Jesus said to them, "Is a lamp brought in to be put under the bushel basket, or under the bed, and not on the lampstand? For there is nothing hidden, except to be disclosed; nor is anything secret, except to come to light. Let anyone with ears to hear listen!" And he said to them, "Pay attention to what you hear; the measure you give will be the measure you get, and still more will be given you. For to those who have, more will be given; and from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away."

 

"Is a lamp brought in to be put under the bushel basket, or under the bed, and not on the lampstand?

Here Jesus is making us aware that the knowledge and knowing we receive MUST be used. If we know that we are meant to be special… then we must ACKNOWLEDGE that through practicing that in our lives!! If the knowledge of the “BIG PICTURE” of our lives has been revealed to us, we MUST LIVE the BIG PICTURE life.

For there is nothing hidden, except to be disclosed; nor is anything secret, except to come to light. Let anyone with ears to hear listen!"

We often believe that there is SO mystery about life and we’re always LOOKING for something or the other. When the truth, as Jesus begins to reveal it, is really that we’re not ALLOWING ourselves to be aware enough to pick up the clues of KNOWING. He encourages us to LISTEN to our INNER KNOWING and FOLLOW through with the commands that come from within. Important to remember, that STILLNESS has been recommended through the ages with a DIVINE purpose, when we learn to connect with the deepest part of who we REALLY REALLY ARE. Created in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of GOD with special a special PURPOSE!!

"Pay attention to what you hear; the measure you give will be the measure you get, and still more will be given you. For to those who have, more will be given; and from those who have nothing, even what they have will be taken away."

The depth of this powerful message is revealed in the last paragraph of the parable, in which Jesus draws our attention to Consciously LISTENING to the guidance of our inner knowing without blindly following our outer KNOWING. For those who CHOOSE to LISTEN and FOLLOW THROUGH, will have the power to harness the DIVINE gift of KNOWING and continue to receive guidance and will continue to receive the grace to understand the deeper and more profound truth of the BIG PICTURE of creation. And those of us who choose to live OBLIVIOUS of this KNOWING, even that which we were gifted with by birth will soon become redundant.

May the message of KNOWING fill you with a greater pride that you may continue to receive a deeper understanding of the word of God, revealed through Jesus. A BIG PICTURE view of CREATION, created with YOU as the CENTRE.

ALL ELSE, is but a CHOICE you make!!!